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Crossing the Red Sea
Our
best crop
My brother
Tom
Coming
out of the fire
More
than a truce
the
bears and the bees
Billy
Engelhardt
Wherever
we go
Do not forget to
entertain strangers, for by doing so some people had entertained angels
without knowing it.
Hebrews 13:2
My
Brother Tom
was truly one of the more remarkable people that I have ever met.
Although he was only with us for 19 years, his contributions are so profound
and memorable that his spirit and what he taught us continues to reverberate
through our family and in his community more than 20 years after his death.
Tom learned to drive on the country roads of northern Maryland, a safe
place to learn back in the early 70s when the economy was more agrarian
based, with less traffic. People drove slower.
Tom waved to each person he met on the road. He believed that the friendliness
in this greeting was an energy that could be passed from person to person
that one came in contact with, be it driving on the road or in person.
As he came to each driver on the road, he would look their way, smile,
and lift his hand and wave.
Years
later, I felt Toms presence while driving on the country roads of
eastern South Carolina. We took some of our honeybees to the fields and
swamps along the Little Pee Dee River for the winter and are privileged
to work in the community around the town of Mullins for part of the Spring
Each year.
People wave to each other on the roads here. Friends, acquaintances, or
strangers greet each other as they pass in their travels. There is a spirit
of open friendliness. A few years ago, I realized how serious my friends
take all of this when Ann Huggins scolded me for not waving on the road
as we passed on the road earlier that day. I had missed her, not paying
attention to the custom of this region. I tried to convince her that I
was not a snobby Yankee, but just keeping my eyes on the road (or daydreaming).
The next day I made sure that I was waving more.
My brother Tom was always encouraging people. The simple greeting that
he gave on the road was another way for him to express his love. When
back in South Carolina and waving to friends and others on the road, I
think of Tom and this gift that he gave us.
Has God parted
the waters so that you could walk through? Your contributions are welcome.
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